About Lorene Roberts

Hello, I’m Lorene Roberts, the founder of Love Light Inspire, an author, and the host of the podcast, WOW- Love Light Inspire. I’m also a mother of three, a grandmother of four, a passionate world traveller, and a dedicated business owner. However, my journey into Holistic Counselling, Root-Cause Therapy and meditation started as a personal journey and was all about personal growth, resilience and overcoming life’s challenges.

We all have trauma and my story is no different to a lot of other people, but we often don’t realise it is trauma and have no idea of the effect it has had on our bodies and mind. As a kid I was severely neglected and isolated from other children, which made me desperate for love, so I attracting an emotional and sexual abusive husband, because he loved me so much. I saw the control and obsession with me as love and commitment, and this seemed perfectly acceptable to me.

30 years later, he left me for another women, so this is when the exploration started and I realised I had no boundaries which was why his behaviour towards me was not acceptable and why he treated me the way he did, it was all my fault, because initially I did not stop it, but allowed it and I needed to work through it, which I did. You see there is always 2 sides to every story and I needed to recognise my part and own it for what it was.

At the age of 50, when my life took that unexpected turn, and it felt like everything crumbled before my eyes. I faced depression, extremely low self-esteem, and I had a profound sense of loss. I didn’t even know who I was or what I truly liked. To add to the turmoil, I found myself homeless, had no career or way of making money and I had to start over from scratch. What made it worse was my ailing mother was dying too. I had to reinvent myself as a single individual with a new career and establish a new home—all on my own.

To get me where I am now, I studied with some of the greatest in the world and a lot of unknown gurus too, who have taught me incredible things so I have a lot of tools in my tool belt. In my opinion Holistic Counselling using Root Cause Therapy has proven to be one of the best tools, as it digs down deep right into old events so you can see the truth of what actually happened at the time and gives you the opportunity to deal with the knowledge now as an informed adult. These events, while untreated are still emotionally affecting us on a subconscious level today until we deal with the trauma of what actually happened.

Because of all my life experience I now understand family patterns, narcissistic abuse and why it all happens, because I have lived it, so in 2014 I wrote the book Crazy Stupid Love, unlocking life’s lessons to help other women make sense of what is actually happening in their lives.

This period of my life was a massive personal learning curve. It’s true what they say—overcoming obstacles is a profound way to gain life’s most valuable and remarkable lessons. So, I embarked on a journey of self-education and self-discovery that covered physical, mental, emotional and spiritual aspects of life. And once you’ve navigated such challenges, there’s no turning back, you can’t unsee what you have seen and there is nothing more fulfilling than helping others do the same and watching them heal and grow.